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| Celebration, a photo by Nikonsnapper on Flickr. |
Did you learn something new about the world in 2011? What was it?
“True friends are those who are with us when the good things happen. They are pleased by our triumphs. False friends only appear at difficult times, with their sad, supportive faces, when, in fact, our suffering is serving to console them for their miserable lives.” Paulo Coelho
The world is composed of people, and we are flawed. Even friendships are not always what they appear to be. I learned in 2011 that I cannot trust as many people as I previously thought. I need to become more discerning. I discovered a false friend last year, and it caught me off guard. I was confused until I read the above quote. Sadly, it put everything into perspective.
In the future, I will carefully choose those I allow into my inner circle. Together we will celebrate achievements, encourage one another’s growth, talk through our problems, and comfort each other when times are tough.
True friends stand by your side, witnessing all of life’s moments, helping to make them feel complete. When I jump for joy, I don’t want to be alone.
Big hugs,
Robin
Today I used Diana Prichard’s prompt. Many thanks!
That quote is so right on! Robin, I'm so sorry you had to be betrayed, but know that it happens to us all. Your wise words remind me to be thankful for my true friends.
ReplyDeleteI was familiar with the term "fair weather friend"- the sort who only want to be around during good times- but was shocked to learn the opposite exists too. Some people resent others thriving... which is sad. I've come to appreciate the merit of even one true friend! Thanks for you empathy, Noel.
ReplyDeleteI love this photo...plus oh, how true your words ring...
ReplyDeleteI especially love this last paragraph:
>>> True friends stand by your side, witnessing all of life’s moments, helping to make them feel complete. When I jump for joy, I don’t want to be alone.<<<
Me, neither! Grateful to read your REVERBING today!
I definitely understand this post. Friend is such a special title & not everyone deserves it - or is even willing to work for it. I'm really happy to have connected to your blog through reverb11. Keep up the great writing!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Daisy! You're right- friendship is special and should only be reserved for those worthy of the title. I'm glad Reverb is bringing so many great people into my life, including you! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Julie! I hope you have a great month reflecting too! :)
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